belladorra

Sunday, October 17, 2010 at 10:15 PM

Tears are God’s gift to us. Our holy water. They heal us as they flow.

~Rita Schiano

"What is the different of being women and men?"

I don't exactly know why I always wandering what is the answer of that question, again and again. I never realized before, how my sexuality really matter for someone else. It never bothers me much before. But when issues about gender head up, I wonder why, I need to understand....

Why men always choosed to be the leader than women?

Why most women ain't capable to do men's job but the men can do women's job?

Why there is "ladies first rules"?

.....

Well, need a very long time for me to understand. And I'm not fully understand yet. But something I really sure about, I feel really grateful for born as women. Yeah. Because women is soft but so strong. Why? Coz she had tears as her special privileged.

viaweheartit

Sound so naive. But, what do you feel when a men nearby shed his tears in dilemmatic occasion or just watching a sad movie? He will poorly labeled as a weak man, disgusting, and I'm sure everybody will make fun of him in the rest of his life. But when a women shed her tears, no one will make fun of her, no one will mad, no one will disgust. She maybe labeled as a tender-hearted girl who care each other.

A mother will be steady event ought she should face a very difficult task,

A mother will not cry she should be lived in the crush of life,

A mother will not cry when she has nothing to eat or nothing to become a shelter,

but

She cried, when her children hungry

She pleaded, when her children ill

She hurt, when her children address her in a bad manner

A woman wears her tears like jewelry.

~Anonymous

So, when it comes to your jewelry, please use it in a correct way. You never want it to get robbed, do you?

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